Frequently Asked Questions

Anyone age 18 or older can apply to adopt in Virginia. Parents may be single, married, divorced or widowed. What matters most is your ability to provide a safe, stable and loving home. No one is denied adoption because of culture, religion, race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or marital status.

Children in foster care come from diverse families and backgrounds. They range from infants to teens and often have experienced trauma and loss. What they need most are patient, supportive parents who can help them heal and thrive.

Most adoptions in Virginia happen through foster care. Foster or resource parents often become adoptive parents if a child cannot return home. In fact, more than 75% of Virginia foster parents adopt the children in their care.

These are handled directly through the court system with the help of an attorney. They are called “non-agency adoptions.”

Some past offenses may disqualify applicants. Virginia law lists “barrier crimes” such as violent offenses, sexual offenses, crimes against children or serious drug crimes. These laws protect children’s safety.

Families can get support, counseling and other services through Virginia’s Regional Post-Adoption Consortium, which includes the Center for Adoption Support and Education (C.A.S.E.), DePaul Community Resources and United Methodist Family Services (UMFS). 

Depending on a child’s needs, health care may be covered by Medicaid, private insurance or both. Adoption assistance may also be available.

Many adoptions happen through foster care. Your worker will explain paths that fit your situation.

Non-recurring adoption expenses may be reimbursable. Some families qualify for Adoption Assistance. (See the Adoption Assistance page for details.) 

Tell your worker. They’ll explain next steps, including how matching and case planning work.

Timelines vary by family and child. Your worker will share an estimated timeline after your application and training.